I love it with you.Our daily chats.The slow tiptoe through our conversations about this and that.Until you get me to the point of the important things that need to be constantly in my head.
The NPL that’s in place ” I am owned” knowing constantly somewhere some how my best interests are with you.
Each day you knock off those layers of my mind, not for you but so I can learn who I really am. A beautiful submissive man that makes beautiful meaningful choices and does a beautiful thing submits to His dominant….
This chat via text on the way to work is you stripping away my one dimensional mind you once said I had when we first met….Now the layers open on their own, you have got me to do things I have never done before, to trust, in trusting you I am revealing the way my mind works.
That revealing is for myself, you have an understanding and a reading of me its that sort of psychic connection I can never have a secret you sort of draw it out of me and drag it in plain view for what it is…. It’s akin to a flower slowly blooming over time. This summer I have done just that bloomed.
You have started to get me to see what my own thought processes are.
You have cast light on my behaviour, my fears and challenged my world view.
Help me to realize where we are alike, and where we differ.
You have helped me gain a different perspective on things given me a sense of understanding and admiration.
Hearing your take on something, that makes me realize sometimes, I have been blinded by habit or ignorance or my own cussed stubbornness.
You lead me to places I hadn’t thought of to find strength,
Ways in which to turn my negative images into positives,
And through this when I topped recently I being able to do the same for another.It makes me positively and excited to share the briefest moments of this with someone new.
Even writing this down its a trust thing and bonding, you have taught me the value in laughter and comfort and Yes!!!! moments. Do not forget you psychic hunches rubbed off this week I have been acutely aware of something bothering you….. Tonight that came out ” the negativity thing”
That was hard as I was being blindsided and given my habit of internalizing it was unusually a hard few days……
But I got there in the end
“My Choice” not yours not others . This is what I want.
These Moments are I want you to know go down as some of the most priceless moments in my life.
The beautiful choice of a measured reflective mind making the best choice for Him. No matter how scattered or fleeting thise thoughts can be.
They are moments that float back into my mind and make me smile hours or days later.
But you need to know it’s incredibly sexy it can also turn me on in a way nothing else can. By and large there is no talk of anything physical, it’s like the most mundane things become incredibly sensitive and I am having this constant affair of the mind with you I may never fuck you but I know you far more intensely than the narrow “biblical” term means
It doesn’t need to be highly intellectual or intense. Often it becomes so.
We have a slow, relaxed dance, like laying in bed with someone on a rainy day.
I crave this more than anything right now.
And I am so grateful for those moments when I get to experience it.
I am so grateful to experience this with great regularity with you…